2. Dominant giperprotektsiya: heightened attention and concern about a teenager combined with petty control, the abundance of the restrictions and prohibitions, which reinforces the lack of independence, lack of initiative, indecision, inability to stand up for themselves. In hyperintimate adolescents is parental attitude is a feeling of protest against the disrespect for his "I", dramatically enhances the reaction of emancipation.
3. Conniving giperprotektsiya: education in an "idol of the family, indulging all the wishes of the child, over-protection and adoration, the resulting excessively high level of aspiration teenage runaway desire for leadership and excellence, combined with lack of perseverance and reliance on own resources.
4. Emotional denial: ignore the needs of adolescents, often cruel treatment of him. Concealed emotional rejection manifests itself in the global dissatisfaction with the child, parents' constant sensation that he was not "the one", not "this", for example, not manly for his age. Sometimes it is masked by an exaggerated concern and attention, but pretends to irritation, lack of candor in communication, unconscious desire to avoid close contact, and if need be free as anything from a burden. Emotional rejection is equally detrimental for all children, but it is a different effect on their development.
5. Increased moral responsibility: not age-appropriate and the real possibilities of the child demands uncompromising integrity, a sense of duty, integrity, placing the teenager responsible for the lives and welfare of loved ones, the persistent expectations of success in life - all this naturally with ignoring the real needs of the child's own interests , insufficient attention to its psychophysical characteristics. Faced with such a force is attributed to teen parenting status "head of family" with all the attendant requirements of care and custody "mother-child". |